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Our 14 year old keeps sneaking out in the middle of the night...

Parents Support One Another @ MyOutOfControlTeen.com/support = I need help with the following issue:

Our 14 year old keeps sneaking out in the middle of the night. We've screwed the windows shut, called police. She says she sorry...but she can't be that sorry if she keeps doing it. What is the best way to handle this? We've told her it is a safety issue more than anything else.

17-year-old Daughter is Out-of-Control

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MY 17 YR OLD DAUGHTER IS OUT OF CONTROL SHE JUST STARTED DRIVING AND I FOUND EMPTY BOTTLES IN THE CAR SHE WONT COME HOME ON TIME SHE DRIVES AFTER CURFEW SHE HANGS OUT WITH TRASH AND SHE SAID IF I CALL THE COPS SHE WILL MAKE UP LIES SAYING THAT I BEAT HER SHE SAID NO MATTER WHAT I DO SHE WILL TURN IT AROUND AND RUIN MY LIFE BY MAKING UP ANY LIE SHE CAN THINK OF, IM AFRAID OF MY OWN KID. WE LIVE IN NICE HOME I HAVE GIVEN UP MY LIFE TO RAISE THESE KIDS ALONE WITH NOT ONE OUNCE OF HELP SHE WORKS AND SHE BOUGHT HER OWN CAR BUT I PAY INS ON IT AND WHEN I THREATEN TO STOP THE PAYMENTS SHE SAYS SHES CALLING COPS ON ME AND GOING TO CLAIM ABUSE AND THAT I WILL NEVER WIN, HER FATHER DOESNT CARE AND REFUSES TO HELP ME HES REMARRIED AND DOESNT CARE ABOUT HIS KIDS. SHES A DEMON AND I AM BROKEN DOWN AND ALREADY BEEN HOSPITALIZED OVER THIS BECAUSE OF THE STRESS, I HAD BAD CAR ACCIDENT LOST MY JOB AND SHE DOESNT CARE AT ALL. I FEEL AS IF I HAVE CREATED A MONSTER AND IM AT A LOSS AS TO HOW TO FIX IT. IF I DONT GET SOME HELP I DNT THINK I CAN KEEP LIVING IN THIS MISERY,STRESS AND WORRY , MY DAYS AND NIGHTS ARE SPENT IN TEARS AND SHE DOESNT CARE.

Our son does not listen at all...

Parents Support One Another @ MyOutOfControlTeen.com/support = I need help with the following issue:

Our son does not listen at all and now he is basically doing anything he wants including staying in someone’s house spending a night or the weekend and not telling us where he is.

School has become unimportant to him, so far he fail his academic year and he seems not to care a bit. He is also smoking weed frequently and he allows his friends to come into the house and do it in the basement while we are away.

Our house has become their hang out station for everything they want to do, of course all these happen when we are not around.

We are desperately in need for some guidance, I (dad) am about to lose self control and start going crazy in which my next step will be to beat him up....this is the last thing I want to do but I do not see any other choice.

Please help!