Girl on Girl?!
I recently learned just how "sexual" teens are... Girl on Girl, 3 sums with the guy & much much more... Parents, how are you handling this with your teen? (this came to me from a friend who drives a school bus & has over heard the girls talking during the rides to & from school) Did you know this was going on? Does anyone have advice on how to best handle this?
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The best way to handle it is to actually have communication with your children. I know that is difficult for quite a few parents because then their kids would not be allowed to run free like idiots. I have a 17 years old daughter and 16 year old son. I am not saying they are perfect, they are kids, but I do have an honest open relationship with them. I am not afraid to talk to them about anything and I do. It is time for parents to step up and take responsibility for how their children are raised and most of the problems would start to fade away.
Girl on girl is likely, but assuming that all girls are doing that, and/or 3 somes is taking it a bit far. Just because 2 girls were talking about it, doesn't even make it legit. I wouldn't worry too much about 3 somes, lol.
Teenagers are learning about their sexuality and trying to cope with pressures from their hormones and their peers. I would sit down and have a serious discussion about the subject, and stress that proper judgment must be made in the choice of partner as well as the mandatory use of protection.
i was raised very conservatively so that helped me not want to have sex. but the thing that had the most influence was: a girl in college i knew (i was in hs at the time), was engaged, and she said she wished she had saved every kiss, every everything, for the "one." i'm 21 now, so it wasn't that long ago, but i don't remember any of what you're saying. that sounds like a bad group of girls. don't let your kids ride the bus!
Its a sick sick world in which we live in today . Kids are learning from kids today because parents arent allowed to punish there children they call it child abuse and teach the children in school that . A child lies on a parent because one of the other kids told them what to do and say . Now that parent is financially ruined from court cost and disgrace of name .That's what the government is teaching our kids . It all has to do with control nothing to do with morals anymore
its all to do with how you handle the subject i have brought mine up knowing about sex from the age of 10 its never been a taboo subject and all were allowed to ask questions freely .
Teens will experiment but its down to us as parents to guide them we cant be with them 24 7 but we can help them understand the facts of life properly so they don't have to ask friends about it who don't know the real answers
They are much more sexual that we were. (and I am talking in the 80's and 90's) I work at a college and they are exploring all over the place. It is more about exercise and stress relief than feeling a bond or connection with someone else. They have sex with their "friends" and a friend can be someone you met on Myspace or Facebook.
It is what they have learned form TV and the Movies. This generation grew up watching Bratz, the OC and Sex in the City. I mean on Frasier they has an episode where they were talking about the "third date" with the assumption being that everyone slept with someone by the third date. It is no wonder the kids really assume everyone is like this.
The junior high aged kids at the country club in my town have started what is called a BJ club - junior high!
I am starting to talk early with my children about respect for their bodies and carefully selecting what they watch and who they can play with. But mine are 3 and 13 months old. It is easy now.
I am scared for all of our children, I pray the pendulum swings back before mine are dating age.
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