Parents Support One Another @ MyOutOfControlTeen.com/support = I need help with the following issue:
I tried everything with my son and this past Friday I asked him to leave. I am so sad and angry that things have come to this, but I don't know what else I can do. I joined this group and bought the program to hopefully help me in someway. I could use all the advice anyone is willing to give me.
2 comments:
Sounds like he needs to get out there and experience life for himself and what it is like to pay bills and take care of things.
I just went through the same thing!!! I kicked my 18 year old son out last night. We have had MANY issues with him (not working, dropped out of school). The icing on the cake was that he opened up and told me that throughout his childhood, his father had abused him. I was horrified that this had occurred and that I hadn't been aware. I immediately started worrying about his 14 half-sister that still lived in his father's home. Finally I made the decision to report his abuse to CPS so that they could make sure that she was ok. When I told him he started backpeddling on me. Finally it came out that he lied to me, his dad had never touched him! I told him that what he did was unforgivable. He didn't seem to realize that he was accusing him of a crime. He just wanted to garner my sympathy and get me to lay off telling him to go to work. I told him that he needed to leave our house. I can't trust him to not make something up about my husband (his step-dad). He packed up and left.
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