"I will call him 'troubled'..."

Parents Support One Another @ MyOutOfControlTeen.com/support = I need help with the following issue:

I have started the on-line reading and am relieved to know that I am not alone. I have 2, 15 year sons and a daughter. my older son (by 20 mins) is good,kind and sweet, my younger son is trying to distinguish himself by being the exact opposite. I will call him troubled. Troubled is rude, arrogant, disruptive and has had me in tears more times than I can count. Troubled has to be the centre of attention. Troubled has got me so troubled that I don't know how to be with my 2 good kids without troubled being in my thoughts constantly. I think I now know that is the point. He has stolen from us, lied and threatened his sibs, so that my daughter hides in the bathroom from fear, if we are not home. I am tired of dreading coming home. I want to continue my relationship with my 2 good kids and bring troubled back into the family where he once was.

We fight constantly...

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I just got started and bought the program today. Wish me luck! My daughter is doing very well in school and socially. However, we fight constantly, and she acts cold and angry with me constantly. I was in tear yesterday.

If they leave the house how do you punish child?

Parents Support One Another @ MyOutOfControlTeen.com/support = I need help with the following issue: When you have grounded your teenager and they attempt to leave the house, do you physically keep them in the house or let them leave without any intervention? If they leave the house how do you punish child?