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Our 16 year is very immature has ADHD, anxiety disorder and ASD...

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Our 16 year is very immature has ADHD, anxiety disorder and ASD. He cannot see beyond the immediate time having no control. At present he is highly stressed and is abusive, rude and non-compliant. We are fiding taking all his electrical items away for 3 days doesn't have effect him. In fact it has just made him angrier and more defiant. We feel that we have now lost any respect or control of him. He is going to school but struggles immensely academically and socially. He is incredibly OCD at present as his anxiety has taken hold. Ideas?

16 year old son suffers from high level anxiety...

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My 16 year old son suffers from high level anxiety and high level asd. He only does what he wants and is rude, intolerable and shows no remorse. He shows no interest in learning to deal with his anxiety and ocd behaviour. We have tried the taking things away for three days but he is so stubborn and it seems to just make him more detached and angry. We have basically taken everything away... all we are getting now is abuse. Where do we go to from here?

Son has been getting worse...

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Our 18 year old son has been getting worse and more defiant. Stealing smoking pot defiant. No motivation. Anger it is awful ...I am so beat up mentally. Help.

Daughter suspended from school...

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HELP!! My daughter is fifteen was suspended from school for smothering her legs in silver nitrate. We took everythign away, ipod, internet, mobile, phone and tv and was not allowed any social activites 5 days. Day 4 she leaves the house to go to footy training, after five minutes returns to see why we are not dragging her back. this was prior to purchase of book. Now it is school holidays have been fair in letting her go and meet friends as long has jobs around house are completed, which has been the case. Also our no.1 rule is safety when you are out and that we know where she will be and with who. At last minute plans changed on weekend and we discovered the internet protection had been hacked into and turned off on her laptop. Took away internet 5 days, and sent her to her fathers for 3 nights. Due home tomorrow and has informed me she is going to her friends tomorrow night adn will come home when she is ready. I have agreed to let her meet her friends and catch a movie and will pick her up. This is not acceptable to her, she has advised she is going anyway I cannot stop her. Worst part is ... she is right I can't stop her, and when we implement a punishment that includes not going anywhere we can not stop her going. The consequences pile up and we resolve nothing. Any suggestions??? HELP

Daughter was recently caught smoking pot...

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Our 16 yr old daughter was recently caught with smoking pot in her room when we were home, with a freind who we didn't know from her school, (new freind from nowhere) she has been sneaking smoking cigerettes for a few years. lying, back talking, ignoring our rules, but is pleasent and quiet otherwise. We have to work tomorrow and asked her to respect our rules not to leave and do chores while we are gone. hmmm should we trust that she will?

He doesn't listen to anyone...

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My nephew who is 15yrs old and is on a 12 month probation order keeps leaving home and coming back whenever he feels like it. He doesn't listen to anyone and doesn't seem to care about what the consequences may be if he ends up in juvenile detention which is where he will go as he has no more chances with the law. Both of his parents have no clue how to get him to understand anything they say and have tried every which way of attitudes toward him.

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16 yo daughter wants to come home...

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My 16 yo daughter wants to come home after living with her 15 yo bf for 6 months. She has been in trouble with the police, involved with not very nice people. As much as I want her home is as much as I dont want her at home. Have told her that the boyfriend is not welcome at our home, she says ok. To be honest I am feeling very uneasy about her coming home.

I sent her to canada to have some time out...

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Hi have just joined i have a 15 dautgher who used to be loving and kind but she is has so much anger inside, wont go to school ...drinks ...stays out all night ...i have tried everything.

i sent her to canada to have some time out with my sister for two months. my sister was saying there nothing wrong with her ...she a lovely girl until the other night my sister went into her room and found a pair of shoes and sun glasses that belong to her, so now she say my daughter is a criminal, and i have changed her flight to come home, but i just don't know what to do now.