I think what he's saying is this: the only way he can feel important, to matter, to count, to be visible, to get attention, etc.... is to "act out." When children get a bigger payoff for misbehavior the for good behavior, they keep misbehaving. The payoff is the intensity from the parent when she's angry and animated.
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